After we found out we were having a little boy, I got all excited because I realized I could hang one of my favorite poems on his wall.

Today I share with you Rudyard Kipling’s wise words from a father to a son.

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Although likely read in a different way today than they were in Kipling’s time, to me the verses still ring true and sound encouragement to live a life of balance, strong character, and perseverance.

If—
By Rudyard Kipling 

If you can keep your head when all about you
    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
    But make allowance for their doubting too;   

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
    Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
    And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
    If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
    And treat those two impostors just the same;   

If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
    And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
    And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
    And never breathe a word about your loss;

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
    To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
    If all men count with you, but none too much;

If you can fill the unforgiving minute
    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
    And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

Source: A Choice of Kipling’s Verse (1943)
via https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/46473/if—

Here’s a link to the beautiful print we ordered for Little Dude’s nursery wall. 

The only thing I wish is that this poem was geared toward all children, although I understand that societal expectations for boys and girls were different when it was written. Has anyone found something comparable for a little girl? Share below!

 

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